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I’ve missed a lot of things since Texas issued stay-at-home orders, but not as much as I thought I would. Since I’m an introvert, staying at home wasn’t that much of a sacrifice. I don’t need as much social stimulation as some do, but I do miss seeing and hugging family, worshiping with our fellow church members, and weekly Bible study with a group of women with whom I can learn and grow through vigorous debate. Zoom has been a lifeline, but it doesn’t make space for the same nonverbal communication or brief one-to-one comments that live meetings do. I’ve already started going to the grocery store again, but cautiously. And it’s a little stressful to be aware of where everyone else is—six feet? No? Better move away—and pay attention to the one-way direction signs down the aisles. Curbside pickup was convenient, but I like choosing my own bananas and deciding what to buy based on what looks inviting. I spend less when I select my own groceries, too, but I'm adjusting. Some people miss their hair cuts and coloring—what a friend used to call her “clip and dip” appointments. I’ve been trimming my own bangs and debating whether to stop covering the gray. Meanwhile, a root touch-up will hold me over till I make up my mind. My hair’s now long enough for a ponytail, and while it’s not my best look, I hate hair in my face; it’s also cooler for summer. I’ve learned to give myself pedicures, too. Given my eyesight, the distance from my toes to my eyes is far enough that I can't see the imperfections. Our topic this week is what I plan to do first, when I feel safe again. Since I’m gradually adjusting to new limitations, and actually enjoying many of them, I’m at kind of a loss. (Cynthia stole my first answer, so I have to think of something less obvious.) Attending Pilates classes again is probably right after giving hugs to the family that don’t live with me, but close behind that are the ordinary, unplanned, closer-than-six-feet interactions with people (even strangers) at stores, parks, restaurants, or any other gathering place that let me feel part of a community. Smiles, gestures, and common pleasantries are underrated. --Janice
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